Episode 3Oct 29, 2025· 6:21

I Wasted 18 Months Half-Assing Fitness | Why Going All-In Is the Only Way to See Results

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For 18 months, I went to the gym "occasionally." Sometimes once a week. Sometimes twice. I told myself I was "working on it." But I wasn't seeing results because I wasn't truly committed. Here's what changed when I finally went all-in. This episode is about the difference between dabbling in fitness and actually committing. You'll hear why half-commitment wastes your time, how to know if you're truly ready to change, and what going "all-in" actually looks like (hint: it's not about perfection). If you've been saying "I'll start working out" for months or years, if you go to the gym sporadically without real results, or if you're tired of fitness failure, this wake-up call episode is for you. This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not medical advice. Please consult a healthcare professional before starting any diet or exercise program. Be sure to follow me on social: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/moremovementplease Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/moremovementplease/ X - https://x.com/AshleyisFamous LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleygrant/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@famousashleygrant YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@FamousAshleyGrant --------------------------------------- This podcast is supported by affiliate partnerships. Please check out a few of our partners below: – Get my lavalier microphones – Start a podcast today here: https://rss.com/?via=moremovementplease – Create content from your own voice with Castmagic's Suite of AI Tools: https://get.castmagic.io/dcjy15cirnts – Want to help support our show? Buy a girl a drink perhaps? https://ko-fi.com/famousashleygrant – Need content for your podcast or blog? Check out Tools for Motivation! The links above are affiliate links. This means my podcast will receive a small commission if you order through any of them at no additional cost to you. Affiliate commissions are one of the ways my podcast makes money so that I can create episodes free of charge. If you do purchase anything from my links, I sincerely would like to thank you for your support!

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About this episode

Ashley Grant shares a personal reflection on 18 months of inconsistent gym attendance after 12 years of inactivity, joining the YMCA in Richmond, Kentucky in August 2023. She describes how half-hearted commitment led to failure, and how public accountability on Instagram during a 100-day fitness effort helped her treat exercise as a lifestyle change rather than a finite challenge. She discusses going all-in to build…

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Who this episode is for

This episode may resonate with you if:

You've started and stopped working out so many times that you've stopped trusting yourself to follow through — and part of you wonders if you're just not the kind of person who does this.

You've been paying for a gym membership for months and barely going — the guilt is there but it hasn't been enough to change anything.

You look in the mirror and still see the version of yourself you're trying to leave behind, even when other things are clearly changing.

You've been treating fitness like a temporary challenge — a 30-day thing, a reset — and it never sticks because there's always an end date in your head.

You used to get winded doing ordinary things — climbing stairs, walking across a parking lot — and you're tired of your own body feeling like the obstacle.

Questions this episode wrestles with

Is it better to not start at all than to keep half-assing it?

answered

Ashley's experience is that half-assing it is its own kind of failure — she paid for a gym membership for 18 months and got nowhere because she never fully committed, and her view is that going all-in is the only thing that actually worked.

"didn't commit fully. And that is why I failed"

What's the difference between doing a fitness challenge and actually changing your lifestyle?

answered

Ashley describes the difference as the endpoint: a challenge has a finish line where you stop, but a lifestyle change has no end — she had to frame her 100 days as permanent from the start, not as something she'd wind down after.

"the plan at all. This wasn't a challenge I was doing. Yes, I was challenging myself, but it wasn't a, OK, I'm going to do this. And then at the end of 100 days, I'm good. That's not how fitness works. It's a lifestyle change. And"

Why do I keep joining gyms and then stopping after a few weeks?

answered

Ashley's take is that just saying 'I'm going to start working out' doesn't put any skin in the game — you need public accountability, a specific plan, and to treat it as permanent, otherwise 'it's too easy to give up, it's too easy to quit.'

"If I had just done what I have previously done in years past and just said, oh, I'm going to start working out, that doesn't put any skin"

Setting expectations: This episode is not a structured fitness guide, workout plan, or breakdown of how to build a routine. It's Ashley reflecting on 18 months of half-assing her gym membership after 12 years of inactivity, and why she thinks going all-in — with public Instagram accountability posts and treating it as a lifestyle rather than a 100-day challenge — was the only thing that finally worked for her.

Tone & style

Ashley starts from the belief that joining the gym and saying 'I'm going to work out' is enough, spends 18 months proving herself wrong, then pivots by going fully public with Instagram accountability posts during a 100-day fitness run — reframing the whole thing as a lifestyle change rather than a challenge. She ends having claimed a new identity ('I am a fitness person') while still honestly admitting she sees 'the fatty' in the mirror.

Personal experience and self-assessed reflection. Ashley explicitly hedges generalizability — 'I don't know if that will help you or not, but it's definitely helping me.' Not fitness or medical advice.

toneCandid & motivational

focusAshley's account of wasting 18 months half-assing it at the Y, and why going all-in with public accountability was the only thing that finally made fitness stick.

stylesolo_monologue

energymedium_high

complexitybeginner

pressure Levelmedium

emotional Texturehonest, self-deprecating, encouraging, slightly vulnerable

Notable quotes

"out was because I knew that if I didn't go all in, I'd be all out. Because it's too easy to give up. It's too easy to quit. The thing is,"

— Famous Ashley Grant

"I still see that fatty. I do. I still see the fatty. But I'm trying to recognize that, well, my pants are fitting better. I'm trying to..."

— Famous Ashley Grant

"I would feel whenever I'd take a flight of stairs. It feels so much better than the pain I would feel, the discomfort I would feel getting winded, going from the Kroger parking lot to the Kroger front door or even walking around the store."

— Famous Ashley Grant

"have never said those words. I never would have said I was into fitness. I would have said I was into, you know, traveling or going out to"

— Famous Ashley Grant

Episode transcript

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Ashley reflects on how full commitment turned fitness into something she's addicted to, while also being honest about still seeing 'the fatty' in the mirror despite her body changing — and focusing on how her pants fit instead.